There’s a huge post of Tom hugging people. I noticed he hugs the women with two arms over or two arms under, but the men he hugs with one arm over and one arm under. I heard someone once say how men hug is often symbolic of sexual attraction, as one arm over and under signifies a desire for intimacy, as you’re pulling the person flush against you without any gap between the bodies. Do you think how he hugs men denotes a preference towards men?

elenatria:

Wow I haven’t seen that post! 

 Some months ago I was almost convinced that he was in a relationship with Luke Windsor (because they’re always seen together), I swear I almost believed it. Then I learned about Tom’s girlfriend during his acting school years that he surprise visited when she was staying in Paris (while she thought he was in London auditioning), scaring her to death.

BUT.

That “no gap-one arm over and one arm under” theory sounds very interesting. He does draw the men of his life as close to his heart as he can.

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 Since this is an almost exclusively headcanon-y blog yes, I do believe Tom doesn’t mind the… intimacy with other men. C’mon let’s face it, he’s flirted with men for the cameras on multiple occasions.

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And I know this was a stage kiss but

UGH,

what a kiss.

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I’d take that over a thousand butt shots from “Crimson Peak” and the “Night Manager” I swear.

goddessofmischief16:

(I know it’s late but here it goes!)
Hiddlesweek day 4
Favorite role: Loki Laufeyson. He’s my favorite character that Tom has played and the first one I ever saw him play.

natcritiquescartoons:

Hot take for those of you just joining on the gay café™ discourse.

Yes there should absolutely be non-alcholic spaces for underage lgbt people and those who choose not to drink. This should also include poor lgbt persons and lgbt persons of color which means this business shouldn’t be in a gentrified area and it shouldn’t charge 5 dollars for a cup of bean water with organic non-gmo coconut milk and Arabian sugar.

The above can be true without painting gay bars as pervasive sex dungeons full of leather and without denying the history surrounding gay bars as it relates to gay culture and the aids crisis. Gay bars are a dying breed. We need more not less of them if we want to keep our history alive. But we could also use other places like bookshops and cafés that sell lgbt literature and merchandise.